You don’t have to be the perfect 10 – to be the perfect type.
1. Cute and Perky:
The Cheerleader Type. Think Reese Witherspoon, Kristen Bell and Drew Barrymore. Their perkiness can annoy other women, but men love their upbeat, lively attitudes! They usually love physical activity and their high energy makes them the perfect party hostess.
The men who like this type:
Adventurers/explorers. Highly sociable. He most likely has lots of friends and probably a dog too. He worships her optimism and enthusiasm above all else. They know and value that a perky woman smiles in times of crisis, and they stand by her no matter what.
2. The Girl Next Door:
Tomboy to Classic Beauty. Think Cameron Diaz, Jennifer Aniston, Hilary Swank. Most likely received good grades, very athletic and still is.
The men who like this type:
Athletic men who use sports to help them climb the corporate ladder and are high standing in the community. They love her natural beauty and will not encourage plastic surgery. This relationship will be good, healthy and traditional because they share the same values and possibly religion.
3. The Sexpot:
Dangerously curvy and perfectly fearless. Think Marilyn…think Sophia. Her business and career are often based around or having to do with sex. They got the “it” factor and are not afraid to flaunt it to every man’s delight. …
The men who like this type:
They attract all types (especially nerds!), but always seem to fall for the players, new money and big spender types who just use her to reflect what their money can do.
A sexpot must make a direct effort to excel in other areas in order to avoid her stigma. Such as, career, charity or motherhood. Because when beauty fades, this Hottie Patottie will need a back-up…let’s face it…there’s only one Sophia Loren.
4. The Exotic:
These unique beauties are unusually intriguing. They define their own class of hotness. Think Penelope Cruz, Uma Thurman, Angelina Jolie, Iman and Lucy Liu.
The men who like this type:
They are usually polar opposites. (i.e. Iman and David Bowie/Selma Hayek and Edward Norton). Both must be extremely strong and confident in their relationship, so if in the future they have kids or are questioned about their love - they will have each other’s back.
5. The Intellectual:
In the Millionaire’s Club this is the type of women most requested but hardest to find. One of my clients put it this way “Any idiot can be sexy… (but) someone who has achieved success based on her brain power, now that’s REALLY sexy.” Think Natalie Portman, Brooke Shields and Tina Fey. They use their brains to enhance their beauty and often radiate class and elegance. They are confident and composed and know that a skirt and heels can be the ultimate power suit.
The men that like this type:
He usually possesses the same qualities as her: intelligence, confidence and success. He is usually older… but distinguished. He will “woo” her with witty banter and intellectual sparring. He will take his time in proposing because he wants to make sure it is perfect - for fear of her disapproval (right Destin?).
Now, ask yourself, which category do you fall into…and WORK IT, BABY! Research the women I have mentioned. See how they dress, act, manage their lives. Highlight the things that you notice that appeal to you so that may help you maximize the sexiness in your own life. Just remember, there is no such thing as a perfect 10, even Angelina Jolie has flaws. You can improve yourself, but at the end of the day - the perfect type for you is still YOU!
